Dating with Discernment: Inviting God into Your Love Life
Dating in today’s world can feel like navigating a maze—full of choices, emotions, and unknowns. But as women of faith, we’re not meant to do it alone. God cares deeply about your heart, your desires, and your future. And He wants to be invited into your dating life—not as an afterthought, but as your guide.
Proverbs 3:5–6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” This includes your romantic path. Dating with discernment means surrendering your plans, timelines, and preferences to God’s wisdom.
Here are a few practical ways to invite Him in:
Pray early and often. Talk to God about the people you’re interested in, the red flags you sense, and the clarity you seek.
Listen to peace. God often leads through the presence—or absence—of peace. If you feel uneasy, don’t ignore it.
Seek wise counsel. Don’t date in isolation. Invite spiritually grounded friends or mentors into your process.
Ask the right questions. Instead of “Do they like me?” ask “Are they God’s best for me?”
Stay anchored in your identity. The more confident you are in who you are in Christ, the less likely you are to settle for someone who doesn’t align.
When God is your dating partner, your choices become clearer, your standards stay firm, and your heart remains protected. Discernment isn't about fear—it's about faith in His ability to lead you into love that honors Him and fulfills you.
Journal Prompt:
What would it look like for me to fully surrender my dating life to God? Are there areas where I’ve been relying more on my emotions than His direction?
Take time to write a prayer, asking God to take the lead in your love life. Invite Him into your desires, your fears, and your hopes—and trust that He will guide you with both grace and truth.
